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| Useful Contacts Sources of Stress There are literally hundreds of sources of stress in everyday life, ranging
from real crisis points Holmes & Rahe claim that anyone who scores over 300 points in a year has more than an 80% chance of developing a serious health problem in the next two years. For a score between 150-300, there is a 50% chance, and for a score under 150, risk falls to 33%
Life Event Rating Scale Event Rating Death of a Spouse 100 Divorce 73 Separation from partner 65 Prison/mental hospital confinement 63 Death of a close family 63 Major illness/injury 53 Marriage 50 Being fired 47 Marital reconciliation 45 Retirement 45 Big change in health/behaviour of a family member 44 Pregnancy 40 Sexual difficulties 39 Addition to family 39 Major business readjustments 39 Major change in financial state 38 Death of a close friend 36 Change in line of work 36 Taking on a mortgage 31 Foreclosure on mortgage or loan 30 Major change in job responsibility 29 Son/daughter leaving home 29 In-Law trouble 29 Outstanding personal achievement 28 Wife start/end work outside home 26 Beginning/ceasing formal schooling 26 Major change in living conditions 25 Revision of personal habits 24 Troubles with the boss 23 Major changes in work hours/conditions 20 Change in residence 20 Changing to a new school 19 Major change in recreation 19 Major change in church activities 19 Major change in social activities 18 Major change in sleeping habits 16 Major change in No. of family gatherings 15 Major change in eating habits 15 Holidays 13 Christmas 12 Minor violations of the law 11 It is interesting to note that some of these stress factors can be positively desirable events (e.g.. outstanding personal achievement). Holmes argues that often stress is caused by the effort involved in adapting to the changes brought about by these events. So a continuous stream of small changes can cause a great deal of stress, simply because the individual can't ever 'settle' and adjust properly. How many times has someone 'cracked' at a seemingly minor problem? It may be that they are suffering from a series of other stresses, and this last straw has taken them beyond their tolerance limit. Different people will experience the same things in different ways, taking on varying degrees of pressure: some people worry more than others; some thrive on change, while others find it distressing. Also, the degree to which an experience is shared with others is important, as unreleased stress can build up and be very damaging. So although we can list some obvious sources of stress, and even rank them in some kind of order, it's important to remember that stress is a personal thing, more to do with how individuals react and cope, than with the external factors themselves. There are however, some more general sources of stress which can apply to anyone at anytime.
WORRY/FEAR There is often more tension created by anxiety about a past, present or future event than by the event itself! We've all heard of phobias, and they are simply an extreme example, where someone's anxiety (and the desperate need to control it!) is far greater than the situation requires. Worry is a very real source of stress. Therapy, assertiveness training and many other stress management techniques may be able to help you get your worries and fears into perspective, and suggest ways of dealing with those that are unavoidable.
CHANGE Adapting to any kind of change, however good, can be stressful. It's said that people are frightened of things that they don't understand-and in the same way, it is difficult to feel 'safe' without the 'security' of places, situations or people that are known. Even for those who positively thrive on change, there's still an element of stress in the very excitement and challenge that they enjoy. The body and mind are programmed for self protection - our in-built survival instinct. New relationships, places, jobs or responsibilities are more difficult for us to control. Even a new hairstyle or image may draw unwanted or alarming attention! Adapting to change is a stressful process in itself - we have to get to know our boundaries until we feel more safe. Although change is a common source of stress, it's important to note that lack of change can also cause stress. Physical and mental boredom or frustration can cause stress, so the answer may be to stimulate your mind and body - but not too much.
FRUSTRATION Every time you suppress a spontaneous reaction or emotion, you increase your stress level, forcing your body to restrain from it's natural process. Society generally teaches us to 'control' our emotions by not showing them, and it's often seen as embarrassing or weak if someone expresses 'too much' excitement, anger or distress. Yet releasing and expressing pent-up emotions and feelings leads to a great sense of relief. you really are better off after a good laugh or cry!
PHYSICAL FACTORS Disrupted sleep, uncomfortable furniture, over/under heating, poor posture, bright/dim lighting, noise, sitting/standing for too long, aches and pains, lack of/too much energy, poor diet, not enough breaks, too much alcohol/caffeine/cigarettes, interruptions... All of these place strain on the body or mind and cause tension. The combined effect of several of the above, over a period of time, place you under stress.
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